About me


Values-based, authentic, joyful relationships

Love Leaf Coaching is Regina's coaching and educational event service that helps dynamic people emerge from relationship dissatisfaction to independently and authentically creating relationships and friendships based on common values, trust and joy.


Learn strategies for connecting with people in ways that highlight your sweetness, sexiness and sincerity. Get continuous feedback on your decision-making process with dates, friends and new relationships. Co-create your dating profile and social calendar in ways that are authentic and fun and you start the new friendships and relationships.
Coaching is done with individuals through in person meetings, video or phone calls.

Since the Covid 19 pandemic, I’ve been doing coaching through video and voice calls.

Coaching is $133/week for one hour of coaching + email support. 

Sliding scale is available, so message me if you need that!


Workshops, Speaking & Ceremonies
More of group learner? I regularly do events in San Francisco that range from $0-$200 per individual and I’m available for speaking gigs for $300 and up. If you are interested in booking me for a workshop or speaking event, contact me here.

Among her kin and close friends she has arranged marriage, consensual non-monogamy, LGBTQ families and strict adherence to Judeo-Christian values. She is proud to continuously read scholarly literature supporting the health and widespread practice of all of these lovestyles.

Regina does not condone waiting for prince charming or retaliatory social media posts and offers harm reduction alternatives for both.


Signature Workshops

How to Meet Great People For Dating or Decades of Friendship.

In this workshop I teach three strategies that are as relevant for a parent making new friends as it is for a single person attempting dating for the first time in years.

Each strategy has a hands on component to it that is practiced in pairs and discussed as a large group. The workshop lasts about one hour, and can be modified to fit various time frames and group sizes.

Connectivity: An Experiment in Pairing Strangers

How do we bond with people? How important is choice in forming healthy new bonds? These are some of the intense questions we tackle in this experimental workshop in which everyone is put into a pair with someone they don’t know well. We go through exercises to increase closeness to our random buddy, and then reconvene as a whole group to examine the trajectory of assigned matches. We discuss the nature of pair bonding, the benefits and challenges of copious choices.

How Understanding Your Bias Gets You Great Relationships

In this workshop we’ll examine the nature of bias, and do some personal reflection and interactive exercises looking at our own biases. With a strong mindfulness component, this workshop is great for anyone who has been on either end of allowing their bias to prevent them from having greater connection.

Turning a New Love Leaf Ceremony

Are you ready to turn a new leaf in your love life? Are you ready to let the healing power of nature and a supportive circle of likeminded people ferry you into the next chapter of your love life? Sign up for the newsletter here or send me a message to find out when the next ceremony is or request a personalized ceremony for yourself or your group.

Ceremonies are typically held near the Ocean in the San Francisco Bay Area, but can be held in other locations by request. For visitor accommodation to San Francisco ceremonies, send me a direct message.

About Me and Story of Love Leaf Coaching

My name is Regina and I am a dating and friendship coach because I DO believe that anyone can learn to start enjoyable, long lasting friendships and romances...if they REALLY want it.

I also believe that a lot of mainstream attitudes about romance and widespread intergenerational trauma prevents many of us from creating rewarding relationships. I majored in sociology and I continue to educate myself about love and relationships from a social context through books, workshops and being in relationship with beautiful, diverse people.

Regina Fletcher

I have been lucky to support myself as a part-time or full-time dating & friendship coach since 2014, and my side hustles draw on my earliest career: public school teaching. I’m in a 19 year loving partnership and I had a handful of sweet friends as a child, but my friendship and flirting really bloomed for me in my 30s.

The transition from teaching in public school to teaching social skills to adults via coaching started when I got into a severe car accident while teaching English in Thailand in 2014. I had already been questioning my teaching path after five stressful teaching years in California, and being in one of Thailand's many vehicle crashes woke me up. Additionally I had been hosted by a Couchsurfer in Thailand reconciling her breakup with an American, and I realized that my intercultural relationship skills could be of use to others (my partner is Vietnamese-American).

Originally conceived as Breakup Breakthrough, my coaching practice brought me to coaching clients from four continents with an age span of 23-76. Since then I’ve become a master at helping folks balance self love and self reflection, while understanding how to utilize and resist the forces of culture, economics, politics and media in their personal relationships.



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