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How to Meet Great People (for Dating or Decades of Friendship) Weds Sept 12 6-8pm WeWork City Center, Oakland, CA $15-$25  [button text="RSVP" link="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/how-to-meet-great-people-for-dating-or-decades-of-friendship-tickets-48606183403"] Do you long to bring people into your life with more intention? Do you label yourself introverted, less interesting than others, or unable to judge character well? These qualities are not…
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How to Avoid Who Pays For the Bill Anxiety (Republished from Elephant Journal)

How to Avoid Who Pays For the Bill Anxiety (Republished from Elephant Journal)
People kept sharing about how stressful dates can be when there are mismatched expectations about splitting the bill on a first date, so I wrote this article. Share your thoughts in the comments! https://www.elephantjournal.com/now/how-to-avoid-who-pays-for-the-bill-dating-anxiety-while-increasing-emotional-connection-on-dates-a-practical-approach-to-money-and-dating-that-is-equal-parts-feminist-realist-and/?platform=hootsuite (more…)
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Free workshop including information and strategies for dealing with anxiety, cynicism and security in the wild world of online dating.
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Connection-Based Travel

Connection-Based Travel
[caption id="attachment_2883" align="alignright" width="225"] Regina & her friend Gini, whom she met in 2014, then visited in 2018.[/caption] "I did 10 countries in 20 days! Is it even worth it to visit Laos? We gotta do Phuket, then Koh Phi Phi and of course if you go to Cambodia you have to do Angkor Wat. Halong…
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The Secret Lives of Virtual Dating Assistants: Required Reading for Dating App Users

The Secret Lives of Virtual Dating Assistants: Required Reading for Dating App Users
The Secret Lives of Virtual Dating Assistants: Required Reading for Dating App Users Ghosting, flaking, callous rejection and copy pasta opening message: these are the most common complaints my relationship coaching clients make about dating apps. As if the platform of a dating apps with their convenient, addictive, variable reward ratio schedule systems didn't already have enough…
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