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Part 2 of Lessons from Non-monogamy Conference

Part 2: Child Custody While Poly: a Disentangling of Danger and Discomfort Welcome to my three-part series on lessons I learned from the Future of Monogamy and Non-Monogamy Conference at Berkeley. As a relationship coach of passionate, outlier clients, I have found that some of the soundest voices in the research and healing of modern relationships are…
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Part One: Three Lessons from Nonmonogamy to Empower the Unpartnered Monogamist

"Always go as fast as the slowest person can handle" was one of my favorite gems of wisdom from Liat Wexler from the International Conference on the Future of Monogamy and Nonmonogamy in Berkeley. Wexler presented on the unique elements of domestic violence among non-monogamous communities, yet the wisdom coming from professionals, academics and community members devoted…
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Scariest Halloween Costume: Your Highest Self

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us." -Marianne Williamson This Halloween I was delighted when my partner who is deep in a 66+hour/week programmer bootcamp, accepted my invitation to go to a…
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How to Meet New People on Halloween

An oldie but a goodie! Dates mentioned are from 2015, but more events coming Weds Nov 9 and Feb 17 listed at

When Monogamy Begets Murder

IN MEMORY OF JACKSON NJOROGE Career and life coach, Joe Brachocki posted a beautiful piece honoring his friend from Kenya, Jackson Njoroge, who was murdered by a man sleeping with Jackson’s girlfriend. The man hadn’t know about Jackson and when he found out about him, he got into a fight with him and killed him…
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